Goals

Due to how many misguided and incorrect people I, for whatever reason/s, met during my many expeditions and other travels, I decided to list here some of my main goals over the years.  One of my main goals, after all, has always been to be ‘transparent’/forthright, as well as consistent in my intentions.  Little more needs to be said in that regard, so without further adieu:

1. 1983-1995:  (I’m not sure it would be accurate to say I had goals back during these very first few years of this life; I was just a boy trying Cub Scouts, starting school, watching some cartoons, and building with Legos and Lincoln Logs.)
2. 1996:  try interesting computer games with my best friend, and get into JROTC
3. 1997:  be the best JROTC cadet I could be; be more than just a student of the state-mandated courses
4. 1998:  start practicing lower-levels leadership as a JROTC cadet
5. 1999:  be an honorable boyfriend to my high-school sweetheart, and start an after-school adventure/fitness club
6. 2000:  start exploring outside my hometown on my own, and apply for military academies
7. 2001:  graduate with the best grades possible, then start college/university
8. 2002:  enlist to serve my country, starting training to become capable of protecting people from bullies and other threats
9. 2003:  complete military basic training and further training
10. 2004:  honorable actions during first deployment
11. 2005:  continue/resume my independent studies, and complete further training
12. 2006:  honorable actions during second deployment
13. 2007:  exit the military service honorably, and start trying other potential fields / career-paths
14. 2008:  get back into school; new colleges/universities (computer science at first)
15. 2009:  learn as much as possible about project management, national-level and billion-dollar projects, and so on, and answer an alleged mayday across the country, then make 1st trip to Asia
16. 2010:  learn all I could about Antarctica before attempting to go/work there, and make 1st trip to South America
17. 2011:  practice making and sleeping in snow-caves, then relocating to Utah to see how “round 1” there goes
18. 2012:  3rd trip to the Middle East (this time without an army, and to explore “the holy land” and adjacent lands, doubling as my 1st trip to the edge of Africa), then relocate to Montana, just as I’d foreseen and written a few years back, to acclimate to a lower temperature-range and do some more R+D toward manifesting foundational components of my life’s work
19. 2013:  help people start farms and off-grid ventures of their own, and get through the stress/heartache of having to delay/postpone/raincheck my own
20. 2014:  install landscaping for –and build– cabin-mansions during all seasons –and in the neighborhood I have dreamed of starting my family in ever since
21. 2015:  attempted regrouping/’anchoring’ in Indiana, of all places, having hoped/thought a long-time connection would team up there
22. 2016:  check out numerous veteran events across the country, such as an Ivy League one, and another which required almost 2 weeks of white-water rafting through the Grand Canyon
23. 2017:  discuss launching another startup with potential investors and teammates, always with the intent to help people while earning enough money to get myself to Antarctica, and then 1st trips to Oceania (Hawaii), Telos, and Alaska (the 50th U.S. state I reached)
24. 2018:  1st trip into the Caribbean and Bermuda Triangle (and 1st cruise), and 1st road-trip across Europe (seeing as many of its ~50 countries as I could during my available month for this mega-expedition and training-evolution), then return to Alaska to acclimate to even greater cold and get hands-on experience farming in one of the most-challenging climate-zones; another perfect next-step toward eventually living as far out as Antarctica
25. 2019:  practice/train for the possible modern exodus; a mega-roadtrip spanning thousands of miles (i.e. anyone who ends up migrating with me to set up off-grid communities)
26. 2020:  scout several thousand miles farther down the Pan-American Highway, and relocate to Patagonia (hopefully to finally find my real relatives, if there are any out there) –with no intention of return (only the intention of making it much more likely to daily reach Antarctica), plus ascend as many pyramids along the way as possible
27. 2021:  regroup/recover, having found so many dishonorable people down there (though a few were very nice); there was just no way to continue along that particular route, the scams, extortion, and general conditions being so nightmarish
28. 2022:  build interactive, aesthetically-pleasing, comprehensive/thorough computer-models of my life’s work (the self-sustaining off-grid innovative community-design called Inisfree), now making it possible for anyone interested to literally fly through them almost like in virtual reality, and put all the finishing-touches on this business website
29. 2023:  continue hoping for the miracle of my dream-people / soul-family meeting/reuniting with me and starting both 1) my dream-home/family back in the YC, and 2) the community I’ve been designing/revising for the past ~20 years

All throughout those years, I studied as hard as I could to make myself as marketable/useful as possible, and I applied for many jobs, sometimes for months in a row, and attended every recommended veteran and hiring event.  I never once wanted to request help, and only did so when having been ambushed by merciless scammers.  That entire time, my nature and focus was on being studious, honest, and friendly/loving/polite/positive, donating to everyone I had a spare dollar for, doing my best to help everyone along the way.  My track record, work ethic, and vibe should have made all that completely obvious.

I am still pretty disappointed in the insecure trash-talkers who chose to disregard/ignore/deny all those tireless efforts of mine, but I guess those years were the time-period for me to see just how bad a lot of places had become due to those lowlifes, thus how much help/intervention is needed.  When I return to some of them, we’ll square that away.  Now that I have witnessed being honest, polite, and helpful had no impact on whether they were polite or honest themselves, I’ll skip that ineffective approach, at least with those who always clearly vibe as their sort.

I’ve been open to dating and sharing love with healthy polite girls all along.  I only asked that the ones who show up and suggest such interaction with me be compatible with me, and that we be respectfully left in peace to engage one another naturally.  At least 1,000 I can recall pretty clearly would have gotten a wholehearted “yes” from me if only they’d honored that normal request.  So many who were not compatible with me at all tried to pressure me, though, and so many who were outwardly compatible chose to just sit or stay quiet, even though their auras/vibes were practically screaming want/interest, and I just don’t ever have time or tolerance for rudeness, shyness, or weirdness like that; you simply will not get a “yes” from me until you honor my requests and introduce yourself like a normal person.  Please make an effort next time.  Please honor my requests.  And, for god’s sake, react positively when I politely continue along my way, giving you all the options as to how to initiate and interact with me.  I still can’t believe how badly my peacefulness was reacted to out there so many times…  “Just wow.”

Multiple times along that way, I did my absolute best to “move heaven and earth” to start a family and farm of my own.  With how viciously that was interfered with back then, and how so many idiots tried to pressure me to recklessly start any family at all, no matter how sloppily or poorly-timed, I had no choice but to abandon those hopes until many more signs and resources aligned to make having my own family feasible and prudent.  They were clearly OCD about breeding prematurely, and at all costs, no matter the outcome for even their own offspring and bloodlines.  There is no wisdom or honor in that –or sanity –or future.

Having the farm, family, and community of my dreams has remained my main underlying motivator all along, though, and always shall.

I just won’t ever insult myself, my ancestors, or the gods by stooping to spawning with the barely-human types who chose to insult and pester me instead of seeing and respecting my intelligence and honor.  I will only accept appropriate people and appropriate communities.  I will only accept good conditions for any lives I may decide to create.  My future children will not be subjected to struggling through the awful conditions I was put through.

I’m either your priority and breath of fresh air, or something else is, thus I will keep moving, waiting for the correct time and place to ‘settle down’.  You’re either ‘my people’ or you’re not.  Do stop wasting your own time and energy by trying to change that wisdom about me.  Be what I asked for –what my instincts know is right for me– or step aside, doing your own thing somewhere else.

Now you know why my goals and trajectory have been what they have been (always to learn as much as I can, explore as many places as I can, find the right place/s for me, and start a healthy stable community of only compatible people, the only acceptable foundation for ‘quality of life’ and children of my own), and what my upcoming goals are likely to be.  You know who I will gladly accept into my life.  You know with whom I will be excited to start a family.

It’s all over this website.  It’s free for the whole world to browse.  I’m always available to politely contact and team up with.

Sincerely,

A°